Silhouettes of a man kneeling and a woman standing facing each other in black and white.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Gifts and physical offerings are welcome, but must be approved in advance.

    All items should reflect respect, intention, and align with my standards.

    Unapproved or anonymous packages are discouraged and may be discarded for safety reasons.

    Exception:
    Items sent directly through my Amazon or Throne wishlists do not require prior approval.

    Approval ensures your offering is appropriate, expected, and received as intended.

  • For my safety and comfort, the following items are not accepted:

    • Perishable items (food, drinks, or anything that can spoil)
    • Used or worn personal items
    • Opened or unsealed products
    • Hazardous, illegal, or inappropriate materials
    • Anything intended to shock, test boundaries, or cause discomfort

    All items must be securely packaged and properly sealed.

    Packages that appear tampered with, unsafe, or suspicious will be discarded without acknowledgment.

    Any items that violate these boundaries will be discarded.

    Items that are illegal, unsafe, or potentially harmful to me will be reported where appropriate.

  • Acknowledgment of gifts or offerings is not guaranteed.

    Sending an item does not earn you a response, interaction, or access to me.
    *I may feel incline to reply if there is a kind card or letter but again it’s at my choosing.

    Offerings are voluntary and should not be used to create expectations or entitlement.

    Frequency, attention, and engagement remain entirely at my discretion.

  • All mailed items are considered voluntary offerings and will not be returned to sender.

    Exception:
    For items sent through Amazon or Throne, clothing that does not fit may be exchanged for the correct size. If the size I need is unavailable then it will be returned. Items may also be returned if they are not as expected/described.

    Items that violate my boundaries will be discarded without acknowledgment.

    The sender may be blocked or banned from further interaction.

    Any illegal, unsafe, or potentially harmful items will be reported where appropriate.

    Shipping & Responsibility:
    The sender is responsible for all shipping costs, customs fees, and delivery arrangements.

Mailing & Offerings